I would like to know who says that long distance relationships or marriges work,i for one say the that people who have these long distance relonships and say they work are liars or they are not happy about there own relationship. I do know some people who work overseas for a period of time but mainly they are rotational basis like 1 month at work 1 month at home now that sort of relationship can work but when you spend months away from the one you love it is so hard emotionally it causes tension, stress and this causes arguements that neither wants luckily this day and age we have ways to communicate like MSN , phone calls etc but it still doesnt mask the way the hurt you feel inside from being away from the one you love the most especially when you are newly wed of 2 weeks having to leave for months until immigration finally come through i am just praying our plan comes together before to long i need to with my Princess before we hurt our relationship that i dont want to happen.
i want to be and feel part of a relationship make a nest to live in together go shopping ,go visiting friends ,go out on the town, go away on vacations etc, not couped up looking at 4 walls waiting for the day that i am allowed to go to my new home with my new wife that i adore.
This day will come i pray fro that day every day.
Long Distance Relationships
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The day will come, but you have to keep it together till then, it could be as soon as next week. Worst case, 5 months. Either way we need to live this way until we are going to be together again. I am sorry that you are so unhappy in the desert. I want you to be happy as well. I am sorry that I am living here in the land of the 24 hour walmart. I feel guilty that I have all the luxuries that you don't. But I can't change that honey. I stay in the house much more than I normally would to be with you. I do not make any plans to do anything. I work and I come home. Sometimes when we get off MSN, I go to target. But I rarely get with any friends. I think I have had company once since you have been gone, and attended 1 family function. So you see, my life is not a box of roses.It is a good thing that I do not require constant human contact.
Please get out of this funk! And look toward the positive side. I would change places in a minute with you if I could. But somehow I think you would be just as unhappy here as you are there.
It isn't forever, only a few more months. Think about all the soldiers in Iraq that are on year long tours. I know they have eachother, but they don't have their husbands and wives. It will be 12 months before they are together again. It should give you some perspective.
I love you
i know darling I could be there quickly or as you say 6 months from now going of the email sent by the attourney yesterday i sure hope it is earlier for both our sakes.
I know there is nothing you can do with how we live out here i do appreciate i really do and i know for one minute if you swapped places with you would hate as well.
I do know you dont go out much and like to spend time with me and i love you for doing that it does make it a little bearable for me knowing I i can alk with you at some point during they day and not talk to the 4 walls i see very day.
on the squaddies side of life there is no comparison they sign a dotted line to that work with government they have to go were told but it isnt nice for them either it does put it into context not that i like the idea i will get through this tough period for both our sakes
i love you
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